Guide to Hari Raya Aidilfitri in Singapore

In Malay

Contrary to popular belief, Eid al-Fitr is not the start of a Muslim new year. It falls on the tenth month of the Islamic calendar. Instead of wishing a happy new year, greet your fellow Malay-Muslim friend with “Selamat Hari Raya” which translates to “have a happy celebration.” Follow this greeting with “maaf zahir dan batin” which loosely means “forgive me for all my wrongdoings” as it’s also an auspicious day to seek forgiveness.

In Arabic

Alternatively, you can greet in Arabic. Don’t get lost in translation – a simple “Eid Mubarak” will do. It’s a common term used by both Arab Christians and Arab Muslims as a way to say “happy holiday.” Muslims all over the world also use it for Eid al-Adha besides Eid al-Fitr. A close translation of the greeting would be 'celebration' (Eid) and 'blessings' (Mubarak).

The day starts with an early morning prayer at the mosque. Mosques all over the city are filled with worshippers from various walks of life. Some even spill out into the streets, and with everyone praying in one direction in synchrony, it’s really an awe-inspiring sight to see.

Houses are kecoh ('noisy' in Malay) during this time of the year, as families and friends can gather to feast, celebrate and ask for forgiveness. This emotional affair usually sees the younger person giving salam (a type of handshake where one kisses the back of the hand) while asking the elder for forgiveness for all his or her wrongdoings. You can also do so with other relatives and friends – sans kissing the back of the hand.

You'll see pockets of families rocking the traditional Malay outfits in the same colour again this Hari Raya. It’s a cultural tradition observed by families to symbolise unity. Plus, it doesn't hurt to get all dressed up in matching outfits for that annual family photo. From minimalist to frou-frou, outfits range from traditional silk baju kurung to modern lace kebaya. These are usually paired with a songket, a luxe fabric made from silk or cotton. Otherwise, hand-dyed batik is preferred. Check out the local Muslim-friendly brands we've bookmarked for our Hari Raya threads.

What comes after a major spring cleaning? Decorating meticulously. Humble abodes are elevated with bright green home accessories, as well as crescent moons and star motifs as these elements are highly associated with Islam. Some homes keep things extra lit with colourful fairy lights hung by the windows and balconies. Can you feel the festivities in the air?

Here’s the best bit: getting ‘em moolah. Similar to the Chinese hong baos (red packets), green packets filled with cash are given to tots, tykes and teens by working adults. But if your looks take a couple of years off your age, then consider yourself lucky. Alternatively, work that charm if you’re really determined to score some green packets (it works, sometimes). A practise that has caught on since the pandemic – sending Hari Raya dollars via a bank transfer.