Coupled up
Between differences in race, religion, and culture, it is challenging to maintain relationships in an increasingly global world - especially one with rapidly changing norms regarding intimacy. In Israel the diverse cultural landscape can be overwhelming, and finding out how couples from different backgrounds date, mate, and relate, is full of trials and tribulations. Here's a host of “mixed” couples (half Israeli, half non-Israeli) on how they make it work:
ELI VANUNU, ISRAEL and SARAH VANUNU, AUSTRALIA
“You told me on the first date that you would know the person you would end up marrying a week after meeting them,” said Sarah to her husband Eli, smiling at him across the kitchen table of their home in the heart of Florentine. Eli’s face lit up, “And it happened! I proposed after eight days!” In 2004, a week before Sarah finished her six-week backpacking tour in Israel, she met Eli at a jazz gig in Jerusalem. “Tell me three things about yourself, two truths, and one lie,” said Sarah, recounting Eli’s first words to her; they sat playing this game back and forth all night. Throughout the next week they managed to cram what normal couples do in months of dating into eight days: they traveled to Sinai, went for dinners, and visited Eli’s family for a Shabbat in Haifa. Five months passed and Eli moved to be with Sarah in Australia for a year, but a culture shock like no other ensued and the two fought constantly. Eventually they moved back to Israel for good, which the couple ag