The best pick-up bars in Melbourne for singles

There’s a lot going on at Her, Lonsdale Street’s multilevel concept venue. But for your next rendezvous, set your sights on the Music Room on level one. The dedicated listening bar houses thousands of vinyls, and DJs are spinning until late. On weekends, it's packed like sardines and you'll likely end up making eyes at a new friend. There's also a bar pouring tap cocktails within steps of the d-floor, making it easy to grab a bev without losing the hottie you've set your sights on. 

If you love to boogie, but EDM just ain’t your thing, Cherry Bar is where you need to be. Live acts take the stage pretty much every day from Thursday to Sunday, all hand-picked for danceability. Afterwards, DJs spin soul, Motown and funk tunes until the early hours of the morning, while the room writhes like a scene from Dirty Dancing. The crowd is always super friendly and diverse in age and sexuality, and if you’ve got any old-school moves, it’s nice to be able to dance WITH somebody, instead of just near them. A strictly enforced “no dickheads” policy also means respect is mandatory, a key factor making this an epic spot to find love (or at least an innocent pash).

Black Pearl is always counted among the best places in Melbourne to take a date. The crew here won’t tolerate any aggressive or sleazy behaviour, so you can flirt openly and feel safe at the same time. But this little bar gets high on our list for more long-term reasons: at last count, Pearl was directly responsible for over a dozen marriages, and those are just the ones they know about. This includes former manager Chris Hysted, who met his wife across the bar here. So if you’re looking for long-term love, Black Pearl is the best bet by far. Match.com wishes they had a success rate this good.

The Toff has everything you need for a successful rendezvous: Dance floor? Check. Cocktails with charming bartenders? Check. Private booths for a sneaky snog? Check and mate. According to former manager Johnathan Minihan, “people usually meet on the dance floor, then come across to sit in one of the booths and make out. But sometimes there aren’t enough booths, so the couples have to share.”

For classy encounters of the gin-fuelled kind, this CBD basement bar is your bordello of dreams. Decorated like the boudoir of a martini-sipping madam, Gin Palace has all the dark corners and satin pillows you could want to conjure romance.

Dirt-cheap pizza, DJs, trivia nights and rivers of liquor – are there any other icebreakers you really need? Sidle up to the bar and grab a $5 slice and your poison of choice. You may just get to chatting to the cutie pie next to you (and then you can head upstairs for a boogie.)

More often than not, the conversation really starts to flow when it’s closing times at most bars. Keep the night going by heading to Loch and Key, the ultra-late night hospo bar above Captain Melville on Franklin Street. It’s a great place for a pint and chats long into the wee hours, and the crew aren’t shy about a stern word for anyone crossing the line.

This iconic St Kilda institution is a multistoreyed maze of eats, drinks, dance tracks and fine-looking folks. We don't know about you, but sea breezes and sunshine are ripe conditions for flirting – so we recommend soaking up the vibes outside in the front where all the chatty action tends to flow more easily (along with great, big plumes of cig smoke, of course.)

On any given night at this longstanding Collingwood pub, punters of all ages, genders and sexualities are eating pies while watching women’s AFL, listening to live bands, or sweating their glitter make-up off at a raging queer electro dance party. The Gaso also works with LISTEN, a taskforce addressing sexual harassment and gender parity in music venues, and has implemented gender-neutral bathrooms and at least one female security guard at all times. Sexuality of all kinds is very much on show here, and there’s plenty of fun on the dancefloor to be had, as well as good conversation by the fire.

Melbourne’s best approximation of an American dive bar is a prime spot for pick-ups. According to a local who frequents the joint regularly, "the staff there are great social lubricant, and a game of pool is a perfect icebreaker/pick-up line." Banging tunes on the jukebox, plenty of whiskies and a safe and fun environment all help bolster the likelihood of a random encounter. Plus, and perhaps most importantly, everyone looks hot when lit up by neon.

Former bartender Tom Ambroz reckons this late-night laneway venue is a great place to pick up, especially for blossoming workplace romances. “We got a lot of after-work drinks in, and you can tell when workmates had been eyeing each other off for a while.” Maybe just don't invite Susan from HR. 

Leonard’s is basically a house party from an 80s movie. The kind where the all the cool kids are gonna be and you’ll finally have a chance to chat up the person of your dreams. This is a place where the beautiful people who usually frequent the glitzy clubs of Chapel Street might come to find a way to piss off their parents – by picking up a partner clad in leather and tats. Pop outside for a smoke, challenge someone to a game of darts, share a bowl of charcoal chicken fries or find a squishy old couch to sink into while the kick-ass crew sling beer, whisky and cocktails with a wink and a smile.