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Photograph: Daniel Boud
Photograph: Daniel Boud

The best bars for meeting new people in Sydney

You can only swipe left so many times before despairing. Kick it olden-day styles and meet people... in person

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With meet-cutes feeling like a bygone trope of 2000's rom coms as opposed to an IRL possibility, the idea of meeting someone out and about in the city can sound fanciful. That said, we swear, it still happens!

There are certain spaces in the Sydney pub and bar scene where everyone can let their hair down, and a good vibe is always a great start to a conversation or a dance with a cute stranger. We've rounded up this list of the types of pubs and bars with vibes that facilitate connection between groups and individuals. 

Take note: just because a bar is on this list, of course doesn't mean that everyone there is looking for a "good time". Read the room, read the vibes, approach with respect and for everyone's sake, if it's not an enthusiastic "yes" then it's a no. Rejection sucks, but it's not the end of the world. Wish them well and move on. No one likes a creep.

Just after a drink? Here are the best bars in Sydney.

The best pick up bars in Sydney

  • Double Bay
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What's the vibe? A recent renovation has upped the fancy stakes of this expansive Double Bay hotel. 

Who are you going to meet? Eastern suburbs boys with upturned collars on their Polos and girls in alarmingly high heels.

  • Surry Hills
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What's the vibe? Beresford Sunday sessions are a time honoured tradition for the beautiful boys of Darlinghurst. 

Who are you going to meet? A very decent segment of Sydney's gay community who all probably have nicer apartments than you in Darlo and Surry Hills.

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  • Newtown
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Courthouse Hotel
Courthouse Hotel

What's the vibe? One big community beer garden where left-leaning politics dominate and big groups come to spend the afternoon over jugs of beer and burgers.

Who are you going to meet? Everyone knows everyone at the Courty, which is great for friend of a friend introductions - a powerful anti-psycho measure. 

  • Darlinghurst
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What's the vibe? Sure, the queues still bend down Crown Lane, but the bouncers are always nice and you know once you’re in there you’re guaranteed some American-themed joy.

Who are you going to meet? Probably people from creative agencies in Surry Hills. Definitely bartenders. And no one with a peanut allergy, ever.

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  • Chippendale
Freda's
Freda's

What's the vibe? This is a neighbourhood party bar that knows how to keep things cruisey in the early part of the week and ramp it up for a blow out at the pointy end. 

Who are you going to meet? This is the true melting pot. ABC staff, uni students, creatives, corporate staff and party people all come together here.

  • Surry Hills
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What's the vibe? If ever there was a bar where you can don your Hawaiian shirt and rattan ‘Punch Guy’ hat, it’s here. 

Who are you going to meet? People who like tequila, the road less travelled and free popcorn.

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  • Sydney

What's the vibe? Justin Hemmes’ multi-level, multi-venue super-club is a Sydney entertainment Leviathan, there’s no denying it. 

Who are you going to meet? Depends on the night. Thursdays is twenty-somethings in their glad rags; Fridays is city worker set.

  • Bondi Beach
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What's the vibe? It's far enough from the shoreline to ensure everyone is wearing pants, but still full of nice accents and bright young things.

Who are you going to meet? On Wednesdays expect indie party kids, on weekends it's backpackers who are foot loose and fancy free.

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  • Manly

What's the vibe? If during the week you see a lot of people in comfy beach wear around Manly, it all gets cast aside in favour of high-street fashion in coastal colours and nice shoes at the Wharf on weekends. 

Who are you going to meet? It's very much a locals watering hole so if you do get lucky, you'll be staying in the Northern Beaches and getting a ferry of shame the next day.

  • Redfern

What's the vibe? There's not a lot of time to chat when you're belting out 'Bound for Botany Bay' at the top of your lungs on a Monday night at the Dock, but a shared activity is a great icebreaker.

Who are you going to meet? A lot of Sydney's comedy and storytelling community, and their fans, make this a regular spot.

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