San Francisco might be the most romantic city in the world, but that doesn't mean our entire population has coupled off into perfect, rent-controlled relationships. Some San Franciscans simply haven't found "the one," no matter how many first dates they try. Others are perfectly happy riding solo. All of us should feel free to celebrate St. Valentine's annual tribute to love—because the most important relationship of all is the relationship you have with yourself.
Annual Valentine's Day Pillow Fight
Every year, nearly a thousand silly singles head down to Justin Herman Plaza armed with pillows and a strong swingin' arm. This unofficial event isn't organized by anyone in particular, but it'll happen around 6pm—just like it does every year. Don't forget to bring a synthetic pillow (feathers get messy) and be sure to pitch in with after-fight clean-up.
Dance your heart out in the Castro's gay bars
No dance partner? No problem. The crowds at SF's best gay bars like Badlands and The Café make singles feel welcome—usually without a strong come on. Everyone is welcome on the dance floor, and pressure-free dance partners will happily shake their groove thing. Be forewarned: those 2-for-1 cocktail specials can lead to some pretty awesome (or awkward) dance moves.
Anti-Valentine's Day Power Ballad Sing-A-Long
Hate Valentine's Day? Detest canoodling couples in romantic restaurants? Eschew corporate pressure to spend money on a made-up holiday? Do we have the event for you. The Mission's Roxie Theater is hosting an anti-V-Day power ballad sing-a-long, which is exactly what it sounds like. Belt metal ballads along with rocker hosts "Live Evil" for a mere $15.
Treat 'Yo Self
A party of one can actually snag an unreserved seat at 5-star restaurants like Gary Danko and The Progress. Dining in the bar of these iconic San Francisco eateries is just as coveted as the best table in the house, and nothing screams confidence like dining alone and ordering the compete tasting menu on Valentine's Day.
Wallow in unrequited cinematic love
The most romantic theater in San Francisco is screening the most agonizingly romantic movie in the history of film. That's right—The Castro Theatre is showing Casablanca. Here's looking at you, kid, as you sit alone in that gorgeous movie house with a lap full of Walgreen's candy and mini bottles of wine.
Fall in love with your inner self
Sunday Morning Sit at Shambhala San Francisco might be the perfect way to kick off your Valentine's Day. This weekly meditation session is ideal for beginners, the guidance is warm and it's definitely not a place anyone would feel weird attending alone. Arrive at 10am, 10:25am, or 11am for a sitting and walking meditation, as well as talk and discussion. The inner peace is free, but small donations are happily accepted.