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Photograph: courtesy City Cruises by Hornblower
Photograph: courtesy City Cruises by Hornblower

The best Valentine’s Day date ideas in NYC

Make bae feel extra special by trying one of our amazing and foolproof Valentine’s Day date ideas in NYC.

Rossilynne Skena Culgan
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Valentine's Day in NYC can be a hard date to plan, we've got some foolproof ideas to help you create a dreamy evening together whether you're celebrating on the 14th or anytime in February. From dining out in style to catching a show or ordering in from some of the best restaurants in NYC, treat your S.O. to a day to remember for Cupid's holiday. Whether you're on a budget or looking to splurge, there's a litle something on this list for you.

Need more inspiration? Here's our full list of events happening on and around Valentine's Day in NYC this year.

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Best Valentine’s Day date ideas in NYC

2. Feel the romance at a dinner cruise

City Cruises New York invites lovebirds to celebrate their love on one of its Valentine's Day cruises with several dates in February.

With various packages and upgrades to choose from, sweethearts can expect a delightful plated or buffet-style meal along with onboard entertainment, champagne, and roses.

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Two New York City hotels are offering outdoor spa experiences this winter—The William Vale in Brooklyn and The Rockaway Hotel + Spa in Queens, so grab your sweetie and your swimwear.

At The William Vale, enjoy the views while indulging in some much-needed stress relief. Bask in the heat of a barrel sauna with panoramic skyline views or soak in a cedar hot tub under the stars—or both! The experience makes for a special solo trip or a romantic date night. 

At The Rockaway Hotel, enjoy a resort-style escape not too far from Manhattan. For the winter, the hotel has transformed its patio area into a winter pool house with cedar saunas and cozy decor. Plus, the outdoor pool is open for a refreshing plunge.

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If you're looking for a more low-key date night — maybe it's too early in your relationship for the whole Big Fancy Dinner Thing — head over to the Bank of America Winter Village at Bryant Park. They've got bumper cars on ice now through March 2 where you can slide around on the ice for some fun.

Make sure to reserve your passes in advance right here. Full disclosure: you can just show up and ask about availability but, given the popularity of the attraction, we recommend planning your excursion ahead of time. Tickets start at $24.

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  • Exhibitions

Let your love blossom among the blossoms at the New York Botanical Garden's Orchid Show. The Orchid Show this year will whisk you to Mexico into a paradise of tropical beauty—without ever leaving the Bronx. The show is inspired by the bold, multicolored designs of Mexican modernist architect Luis Barragán.

Your ticket will get you daytime access to The Orchid Show, plus all the rest of NYBG's outdoor gardens and collections. If you want to visit after dark, check out Orchid Nights where you can admire the flowers under the twinkling lights of the conservatory with music in the background and a cocktail in hand.

The show runs from February 15 through April 27, 2025.

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  • Sports & Fitness

Make like the French and play some pétanque. Carreau Club, the nation’s first pétanque bar, offers a chance to get your game on while sipping a drink.

The indoor venue at Brooklyn's Industry City makes for great night out with a full bar, craft beer, wine and cocktails, plus a small deli counter. For the uninitiated, pétanque (pronounced puh-TONK) is a bocce-ball style French boules sport gaining popularity in the U.S., starting here in NYC. 

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  • Music
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  • Upper West Side
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Smoke Jazz Club proves that New York City's golden age of jazz is still swinging. The Upper West Side jazz club recently celebrated its 25th anniversary of offering straight-ahead jazz to New York City. 

Located at the junction of 106th and Broadway (aka Duke Ellington Boulevard), Smoke Jazz Club is one of New York City's premier live music venues. Renowned for offering top-notch programming of accessible, timeless jazz featuring legendary performers, modern masters, and rising stars, Smoke stands apart with its candlelit dining room, stellar acoustics, and classic American cuisine. An evening there offers a chance to hear modern-day jazz legends while dining in a supper club. It's the perfect date night.

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Get "crazy" on your date night. This "crazy mini-golf course" and entertainment complex straight from London offers three nine-hole golf courses across 23,000 square feet under 20-foot-high ceilings. 

For those new to the game, "crazy golf" is a British spin on mini-golf, but it's for a 21-and-over audience since craft cocktails are served by caddies on the course. In addition to the cocktails, the course offers a little more edge — think wild routes, obstacles, windmills and more. Plus, cocktails and food options abound. 

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  • Circuses & magic
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Looking to make some magic on your date night? Chamber Magic is the spot. 

Steve Cohen, billed as the Millionaires’ Magician, conjures high-class parlor magic in the marble-columned Madison Room at the swank Lotte New York Palace. Audiences must dress to be impressed (cocktail attire is required); tickets start at $125. Sporting a tuxedo and bright rust hair, the magician delivers routines that he has buffed to a patent-leather gleam: In addition to his signature act—"Think-a-Drink," involving a kettle that pours liquids by request—highlights include a lulu of levitation trick and a card-trick finale that leaves you feeling like, well, a million bucks.

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Enchant that special someone with a Valentine's Day magic show called "Magic: Distilled Presents Love Potion" at Great Jones Distiling Co. in Lower Manhattan. 

While you sip speciality Valentine's Day cocktails, NYC's top magicians, led by illusionist Jeanette Andrews, will perform spell-binding table-side and parlor magic before your eyes. This close-up magic form is rarely seen in modern times, making this show feel like a step back in time. 

The show's available in two seatings on February 14, one at 7pm and the second at 9pm. Tickets, which cost $100/person, include a reservation in the distillery's Art Deco lounge, a complimentary whiskey tasting, the performance and two drinks from from a select menu of cocktails, wine and beer. Be sure to book your reservation in advance because these tickets are hot.

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Smoke Jazz Club proves that New York City's golden age of jazz is still swinging. For Valentine's Day, the club is hosting a series of soulful performances featuring renowned vocalist Mary Stallings from February 12-16.  

Stallings will take the stage with a top-tier trio featuring pianist Aaron Goldberg, bassist Peter Washington, and drummer Joe Farnsworth. Book a Valentine's date there in Smoke's candlelit dining room for a classic supper club experience.

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If you're looking for a thrilling event, the annual Cupid's Undie Run will surely deliver.

Dashing through the streets in your skivvies is not only a rowdy, raucous sprint, it also raises tons of money for the Children's Tumor Foundation.

The shenanigans begin at The DL (95 Delancey St.) in the Lower East Side, where participants meet before the one-mile race. This year's event is on Saturday, February 8. Registration for Cupid’s Undie Run only sets you back $40! Register here.

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Upgrade the typical bouquet of flowers to add tickets to a botanical garden full of spectacular flowers. The Orchid Show at The New York Botanical Garden exhibits thousands of species of beautiful blossoming orchids, and this year it will whisk you to Mexico into a paradise of tropical beauty.

Your ticket will get you daytime access to The Orchid Show, plus all the rest of NYBG's outdoor gardens and collections. If you want to visit after dark, check out Orchid Nights where you can admire the flowers under the twinkling lights of the conservatory with music in the background and a cocktail in hand. Orchid Nights make for a perfect date night!

The show runs from February 15 through April 27, 2025.

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  • Dance

Swap your ice skates for dancing shoes during Bryant Park's Winter Dance at The Lodge this winter. Learn from New York City's best dance instructors, then take your skills to the dancefloor. 

Sessions run on Wednesday nights through February 19 (except February 5), from 6-8pm. Each week features a different theme, from salsa to bachata to west coast swing. It makes for a perfect date night if you have a plus-one to bring, but it's also a great spot if you're in the market to dance with someone new!

Find Winter Dance at The Lodge on the northwest corner of The Rink. Check the full schedule for weekly themes here. It's free to attend with no tickets required.

  • Sex and dating

Looking for that special someone this year? Cupid has taken up a residency at The Lodge at Bryant Park for a series of events called We Met at The Lodge.

The speed dating gurus from We Met IRL are hosting a series of speed dating events and singles mixers this February where you can meet meet new people in a fun, welcoming environment. 

Here's the full schedule: 

— Thursday, February 6: Speed Dating for Queer Women (7-9pm)
— Thursday, February 12: Speed Dating (7-9pm)
— Thursday, February 20: Singles Mixer (8-10pm)

Time Out tips: Dress like you would for a first date and come with an open mind and heart. Pre-registration is required and will be available online soon.

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  • Time Out Market

It doesn’t matter if you’re cuffed or not, this celebration of love will get you dancing into the night at Time Out Market in Dumbo. From 7 to 11pm on February 14, DJ Stretch will provide tunes for dancing while Dumbo psychic Natasha does tarot readings.

You can also take photos at a special Valentine's Day photo booth and throw your ex's belongings to toss in our "Exes Bin." Enjoy it all with a signature cocktail in hand. You’ll also have a chance to win an amazing raffle prize, which includes a box of chocolate, a bottle of champagne or a one-night stay for two at the 1 Hotel.

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Nationally-recognized comedy show UpDating deals with dating hang-ups front and center at this live romantic experiment. Two New Yorkers will be paired on-stage for a blind date, and you get to join in on the magic (or the meltdown). The show comes from NY-Based Comedian Brandon Berman and Dating Blogger Harrison Forman.

There's an event in NYC on February 14 at City Winery (25 11th Avenue). For more details you can check out UpDating's Instagram @updatingshow.

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9. Valentine's Day Cruises with City Cruises

City Cruises New York invites lovebirds to celebrate their love on one of its Valentine's Day cruises with several dates in February.

With various packages and upgrades to choose from, sweethearts can expect a delightful Buffet-style mealS along with onboard entertainment, champagne, and roses.

  • Comedy

As any single straight woman in New York City surely knows, the Big Apple is full of big fuckboys. To make that fact slightly less depressing, two NYC women—Val Bodurtha and Andrea Popova—have decided to stop trying to understand fuckboy behavior themselves and instead have created a panel of fuckboys to get answers from the source.

During this show on February 15 at Caveat in Manhattan, three to five women will share a romantic experience that left them confused. Then, both the fuckboy panel and the audience will weigh in with their own dating insights.

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  • Hotels

Get cozy at TWA Hotel's Runway Chalet pop-up that feels like a 1960s après ski experience. For the winter, the hotel's Pool Bar transforms with flannel decor, a fireplace and seasonal cocktails.

Soak in the outdoor pool, which becomes a steamy "pool-cuzzi" heated to 95 degrees, while you watch jets take off and land on the tarmac below. Plus, enjoy some themed cocktails like hot toddies and hot cocoas, as well as aviation-themed drinks. 

The Runway Chalet is open for hotel guests and visitors alike, just be sure to book your spot in advance. 

  • Circuses & magic
  • Midtown EastOpen run

For a truly magical date night, book tickets for Chamber Magic. Steve Cohen, billed as the Millionaires’ Magician, conjures high-class parlor magic in the marble-columned Madison Room at the swank Lotte New York Palace. Audiences must dress to be impressed (cocktail attire is required); tickets start at $125.

But if you've come to see a classic-style magic act, you get what you pay for. Sporting a tuxedo and bright rust hair, the magician delivers routines that he has buffed to a patent-leather gleam: In addition to his signature act—"Think-a-Drink," involving a kettle that pours liquids by request—highlights include a lulu of levitation trick and a card-trick finale that leaves you feeling like, well, a million bucks.

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Think pink at Watermark, the classic American restaurant on Pier 15 by the Seaport, which is turning into an immersive pink wonderland this month. It's just in time for the peak of New York winter and for Valentine's Day celebrations.

The 10,000 square-foot outdoor bar and restaurant will be lit up in pink hues and be decorated with red flowers, heart installations and mesmerizing twinkling lights. Pink Pier will be open from January 10 until mid-April.

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For a truly sweet date night, Museum of Ice Cream is the place. Ice cream is at the center of this 20,000-square-foot museum that'll make the cold treat even more fun (who knew it'd even be possible?). Across 13 multi-sensory installations, visitors can interact with fun elements like a three-story indoor slide and the all-pink Celestial Subway.

Even better: The sweet treats along the way. Yes, we're talking about unlimited ice cream throughout the museum. For adults, check out some fun themed cocktails as well.

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