The best swingers club NYC has to offer

This upscale, members-only club is on the pricey side (120 bones to get in). Like most swingers’ clubs, it’s strictly BYOB, and the grim lumps of surly bouncers severely enforce its dress code. But if you’ve got the dough, it’s a nicer club than most under the swinger banner, and it’s got a slick dance floor. Note: Single men are not allowed.

Known as a “woke” sex club, this progressive group approves members based on attraction, compatibility, intelligence and experiences with other members. Events like erotic sketching, kinky game night, couples play time, speed dating and more take place at least twice a week. A safe, judgment-free space is promised at all events, workshops and parties, and members can also be part of NSFW’s online social network. 

A small, curated group of strangers connect for Intimate’s, well, intimate swingers events. Members can be experienced or new to the lifestyle, and can enjoy monthly get togethers with cocktails (BYOB, mixers are provided), mingling, flirting and more. Most members are poly, but members are also welcome at events just to dance or observe. Being creepy, however, is strictly forbidden.

Head out to this monthly event in Bushwick that is, well, exactly what you think a swingers’ party in Bushwick would be like—in a good way! Private membership requires screenings to ensure folks are “beautiful inside and out” to participate in the female-energy-centric environment. Men can apply if they’ll be attending with a female Chemistry member.