The most romantic places in London to visit any time

This picturesque ruined church is Romantic with a capital 'R': the light streams through its giant shattered windows, while vines trail their way up its crumbling stones, half-destroyed in a WWII bombing raid. It's perfect for a cheek-reddeningly crisp winter picnic (try reading your date some Byron if you dare) before repairing to a nearby wine bar to warm those unromantically chilly hands. 

Dive down into the basement of Soho’s magnificent Brasserie Zédel and you'll find glitzy Jazz Age romance in spades. The sensuous curving lines and red drapery of this century-old bar make the perfect backdrop to a tantalising line-up of acts: book for an evening of piano-based cabaret or a burlesque night and enjoy the performance at a candlelit table for two. 

There are plenty of places to take in the London skyline, but at Tate Modern’s viewing terrace, you get to see it from all angles. Just don’t make too much eye contact with the Tate’s neighbours, who are less than happy about the Switch House crowds peering through their curtains. Check out work by game-changing artists like Louise Bourgeois, Sarah Lucas and Ai Weiwei on your way up, and grab some snacks from the nearby bar. What could be more romantic than that?

In the mood for a one-person party with a glass of wine and a book? Look no further than Little Venice, a curiously calm slice of London's waterways. Stop for a coffee in a canal-side café (The Waterway and Café Laville are both worth a look) or just stroll along the towpath to look at colourful narrowboats and enjoy some reassuring flashbacks to childhood hours spent watching ‘Rosie and Jim’.

Wilton’s, the oldest grand music hall in the world, has weathered more than its fair share of storms. It’s survived the Blitz, a stint as a rag sorting warehouse and the threat of demolition. The fact it still exists as a Grade II listed theatre is one of London’s mini miracles. Created from a hybrid of five Georgian houses, with a paint-stripped frontage and a plush concert hall, it’s Shadwell’s own time machine. The packed Wilton’s schedule of gigs, theatre and cabaret makes it a decent place for a date too, if you’re into that sort of thing.

So what if nobody sends you flowers for Valentine’s? Get to Columbia Road Flower Market just before noon and snag yourself a cut-price deal on a giant bunch of tulips instead. Buy yourself a bloody lemon tree for a tenner if the mood takes you. Romance isn't just for couples, you know. 

A stroll down this road on a Sunday morning is an olfactory attack that will cure almost any hangover. If you can get your arse there by 8am, it’s like stepping into a Kendall Wylie painting, only there are places to buy bagels and pastel de nata.

Want to give your Valentine’s – or just any average day of the year – the full Brontë? Have a dramatic solo walk through the Hampstead Heath Pergola, a raised walkway overlooking the West Heath. At the right time of year (try mid-April), its roof will be overgrown with vines and wisteria. The structure was originally built by Lord Leverhulme as a setting for his extravagant Edwardian parties. It doesn’t see much Viscount debauchery these days, but it is a great location if you want to reenact a Sixpence None the Richer music video. 

London’s light-polluted skies aren’t exactly made for stargazing, but you can still go all moon-eyed over the big dipper from the Royal Observatory in Greenwich. Put things into perspective by peering through the Great Equatorial Telescope or take a tour of the night sky at the Peter Harrison Planetarium. And if you must pose for the obligatory selfie on the Prime Meridian line, just don’t tell them we sent you.

Flickering candlelight, steamed-up windows and tiny tables fit for two; Dalston's Three Sheets is a perfect date night spot. Cocktails here are nothing short of a revelation, and the young crowd are low-key and cool. This ambient spot best suits drinking after dark, but you could just as easily swing by during the day for light, bright cups of coffee if that's your preference. 

Every corner of the V&A is romantic, but all that Italian Renaissance architecture looks even better when admired from an outdoor suntrap. If you have some spare time to be alone with your big thoughts and a paperback, go and lounge around at the John Madejski. The outdoor space at the V&A is a proper oasis, and it basically has one of its own: the garden’s main feature is an oval pool surrounded by green space to get supine.

What's more romantic than some of London's most prominent Brutalist architecture? Brutalist architecture swathed in a tropical jungle, of course. That might be a hot take, but pay a visit to this well-hidden and truly calming green oasis hidden in one of the wings of the Barbican Centre, and you'll be convinced. The free attraction is only open on selected Sundays, so double check before you set off, and finish your romantic day out with some film, theatre or art in the neighbouring world-class arts centre.

Whether you're going solo or with a date, a trip to the cinema is one of life's great pleasures and there's no better place to do it than the original cinema of the Everyman chain. Known as the Everyman long before there was ever a luxury group, the venue’s two screens are decidedly upmarket: each with armchairs and sofas (as well as a sprinkling of deluxe two-seater sofas in the larger screen) that make it perfect for subtly stretching your arm around your crush. There's also staff serving food and drinks at your seat so you don't have to release your embrace to order. The programming is a mix of mainstream and independent, so you can expect to see big blockbusters here as well as artier British and international films. 

Take date night downstairs to the moodily lit cocktail lounge and whisky bar. It's a smouldering spot that will up the romantic vibes of even the most disasterous date and a place where you can enjoy oysters and aperitivi without looking too try-hard and pretentious. Score. 

Taking in the leafy green beauty at Royal Botanical Gardens in Kew is the perfect way to spend a romantic afternoon. There are numerous ways to spend your time at the gardens, set over 300 acres of land. Visit the Victorian Palm House to see a variety of luscious plant life, see the Chinese Pagoda built in 1762, or take in an aerial view of the grounds on the Tree Top Walkway. You may find love begins to bloom in the picturesque grounds.

If rare books and reciting poetry doesn't spark romance, we don't know what will. Bibliophiles should plan a trip to the 1920s Dutch barge which has been lovingly transformed into a floating bookshop. It used to travel along Regent's Canal, but it’s now taken up permanent residence by Granary Square in King’s Cross. As well as keenly priced books they boast a woodburning stove, friendly dog and occasional live jazz performances. Check their Facebook page for details of book talks and events.

Send sweet nothings reverberating across the dome of St Paul’s Cathedral at this hidden spot, which mixes baroque beauty with an unusual acoustic that means a mere whisper can be heard on the other side. You’ll need to climb 259 steps to get there, so you might be panting with exhaustion as well as passion. The view once you get there, though, can't be beaten – alternate between swooning over it and the person you're taking it in with. 

If it’s a romantic view to gaze out on with a date or just on your tod you’re after, may we present to you Primrose Hill. This summit on the north side of Regent’s Park commands one of the most iconic views over London and is the perfect place to catch the sunset – or sunrise, if that’s your thing. Pack a picnic and a blanket, find a comfy spot and get ready for some great scenes.