a burlesque dancer in all pink
Photograph: Courtesy of Thirsty Girl Productions
Photograph: Courtesy of Thirsty Girl Productions

The best things to do for Valentine’s Day in NYC

Drink, dance and fall in love at these incredible Valentine's Day events in NYC.

Rossilynne Skena Culgan
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Don't leave Valentine's Day up to fate. NYC has awesome amorous events, from concerts to dance classes and more, to attend with your date, your friends or even solo. Whether you love or hate Cupid's holiday, we’ve put together a list of the best things to do on Valentine’s day, including romantic restaurants, decadent chocolate shops and the most romantic things to do to get you in the mood—or not! 

Without further ado, our list of Valentine's things to do, presented in chronological order so you can keep the fun going all month long.

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Best things to do for Valentine’s Day in NYC

  • Music
  • Music venues
  • Upper West Side
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Smoke Jazz Club proves that New York City's golden age of jazz is still swinging. For Valentine's Day, the club is hosting a series of soulful performances featuring renowned vocalist Mary Stallings from February 12-16.  

Stallings will take the stage with a top-tier trio featuring pianist Aaron Goldberg, bassist Peter Washington, and drummer Joe Farnsworth. Book a Valentine's date there in Smoke's candlelit dining room for a classic supper club experience.

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  • Quirky events

If you're looking for a thrilling event, the annual Cupid's Undie Run will surely deliver.

Dashing through the streets in your skivvies is not only a rowdy, raucous sprint, it also raises tons of money for the Children's Tumor Foundation.

The shenanigans begin at The DL (95 Delancey St.) in the Lower East Side, where participants meet before the one-mile race. This year's event is on Saturday, February 8. Registration for Cupid’s Undie Run only sets you back $40! Register here.

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  • Things to do
  • Exhibitions

Upgrade the typical bouquet of flowers to add tickets to a botanical garden full of spectacular flowers. The Orchid Show at The New York Botanical Garden exhibits thousands of species of beautiful blossoming orchids, and this year it will whisk you to Mexico into a paradise of tropical beauty.

Your ticket will get you daytime access to The Orchid Show, plus all the rest of NYBG's outdoor gardens and collections. If you want to visit after dark, check out Orchid Nights where you can admire the flowers under the twinkling lights of the conservatory with music in the background and a cocktail in hand. Orchid Nights make for a perfect date night!

The show runs from February 15 through April 27, 2025.

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  • Events & Festivals

If you're the kind of person who likes a grand gesture to show your love, this might be the grandest one yet. You can proclaim your love with a surprise proposal, a wedding, or a vow renewal ceremony in Times Square on Valentine's Day, February 14, 2025. 

This annual tradition hosted by the Times Square Alliance welcomes local lovers—and sweethearts from across the world—to the iconic Red Steps for the special occasion. If you want to get in on Love in Times Square, you've got to apply in advance here

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  • Sex and dating
  • Sex & Dating

It's said that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but at this one-of-a-kind matchmaking show, suitors use the scent of smell to make a match. Smells Like Love, an interactive matchmaking show, will debut on Saturday, February 15 at Caveat on the Lower East Side. It's hosted by Emma Vernon, a comedian and matchmaker turned perfume expert. 

Think of Smells Like Love as a twist on the classic dating game. With each round, the stakes grow higher—and the smells stronger—as contestants vie for a shot at love, all based on how they smell and what smells appeal to them. One eligible single will take a seat on stage, and a wall will divide them from three suitors. In front of a live audience, they'll answer questions based on their own aromas and how they smell things. 

Don't worry, even if you're not on stage, you'll get to smell a lot of stuff, too, as part of a research-backed smell-and-tell.

  • Dance
  • Burlesque
  • Bushwick
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Lewis Carroll's trippy Alice in Wonderland books have inspired many theatrical spectacles, but Company XIV's seductive Queen of Hearts is a singular sexcess: a transporting fusion of haute burlesque, circus, dance and song. Your fall down the glamorous rabbit hole begins upon entering the troupe's louche Bushwick lair, where scantily clad server-performers slink about in flattering red lighting.

A cursory knowledge of the source material will help you make sense of the show’s three-act cavalcade of Alice-inspired routines, as our blue-haired heroine embarks on an NC-17 coming-of-age journey under the guidance of the White Rabbit.

The show runs on weekends this winter and spring.

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Forget buying lingerie off the rack. Instead, make your own with these workshops at Rue du Paradis. The business in Brooklyn's Industry City always offers lingerie-making and jockstrap-making workshops, but for Valentine's Day, they've added extra special sessions. 

There's a Valentines Day Panty Making Workshop on February 14. Or a Valentines Day Panty Making Workshop & Aphrodisiac Lollipop Making Workshop on February 14-15. Whether you're going solo, with friends, or with a date, you'll leave with something beautiful to wear beneath your Valentine's 'fit. Pieces are made-to-measure, so you'll get a one-of-a-kind garment that fits your body perfectly. 

Rue du Paradis is run by Fanny Karaman who is commited to inclusivity and diversity with a dream "for everyone to be able to experience ethically produced made-to-measure lingerie."

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Cherry Pitz and Handsome Brad return with their night of scripted burlesque (subtitled "The Home for Wayward Girls and Fallen Women"), held monthly on Lower East Side. This production sees the crew once again bringing a fun theme to the stage. 

For Valentine's weekend, the show focuses on the ladies of Disney. The show's on Thursday, February 13 at The Slipper Room. Tickets always go fast for Hotsy Totsy Burlesque shows, so hurry up if you want to go.

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Regardless of the temps outside, winter in New York is still magical. Don't believe us? Experience the beauty of the season for yourself at this one-of-a-kind winter wonderland.

This month, Somewhere Nowhere is giving us reason to venture out in the snow. During the month of February, the nightclub is transforming its rooftop bar into a winter retreat. Reserve a heated teardrop igloo with you and your boo (or your best crew), and enjoy Champagne, cocktails and small bites all within view of the NYC skyline. Still a bit chilly? Cozy up with warm fur blankets, plush loveseats and a built-in fireplace. Book an igloo for up to two people for $200 or bring five of your closest for $300. Dates are still available for February 11, February 13, February 20, February 21, February 27 and February 28. Book it now!

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11. Valentine's Day Cruises with City Cruises

City Cruises New York invites lovebirds to celebrate their love on one of its Valentine's Day cruises with several dates in February.

With various packages and upgrades to choose from, sweethearts can expect a delightful Buffet-style mealS along with onboard entertainment, champagne, and roses.

  • Hotels

Get cozy at TWA Hotel's Runway Chalet pop-up that feels like a 1960s après ski experience. For the winter, the hotel's Pool Bar transforms with flannel decor, a fireplace and seasonal cocktails.

Soak in the outdoor pool, which becomes a steamy "pool-cuzzi" heated to 95 degrees, while you watch jets take off and land on the tarmac below. Plus, enjoy some themed cocktails like hot toddies and hot cocoas, as well as aviation-themed drinks. 

The Runway Chalet is open for hotel guests and visitors alike, just be sure to book your spot in advance. 

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  • Circuses & magic
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For a truly magical date night, book tickets for Chamber Magic. Steve Cohen, billed as the Millionaires’ Magician, conjures high-class parlor magic in the marble-columned Madison Room at the swank Lotte New York Palace. Audiences must dress to be impressed (cocktail attire is required); tickets start at $125.

But if you've come to see a classic-style magic act, you get what you pay for. Sporting a tuxedo and bright rust hair, the magician delivers routines that he has buffed to a patent-leather gleam: In addition to his signature act—"Think-a-Drink," involving a kettle that pours liquids by request—highlights include a lulu of levitation trick and a card-trick finale that leaves you feeling like, well, a million bucks.

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  • Things to do
  • City Life

Think pink at Watermark, the classic American restaurant on Pier 15 by the Seaport, which is turning into an immersive pink wonderland this month. It's just in time for the peak of New York winter and for Valentine's Day celebrations.

The 10,000 square-foot outdoor bar and restaurant will be lit up in pink hues and be decorated with red flowers, heart installations and mesmerizing twinkling lights. Pink Pier will be open from January 10 until mid-April.

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  • Soho

For a truly sweet date night, Museum of Ice Cream is the place. Ice cream is at the center of this 20,000-square-foot museum that'll make the cold treat even more fun (who knew it'd even be possible?). Across 13 multi-sensory installations, visitors can interact with fun elements like a three-story indoor slide and the all-pink Celestial Subway.

Even better: The sweet treats along the way. Yes, we're talking about unlimited ice cream throughout the museum. For adults, check out some fun themed cocktails as well.

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